This is the week of Love. Not just you can show your feeling to your girl friend or boy friend or spouse, but you can also extend it towards your parents, friends, and literally anyone including strangers. And all this makes you feel as winner. Like imparting education and knowledge, Love also gets multiplied when spread.
Do you believe in it? Yes you do – let’s see what you can do this Valentines week to spread the much needed and fast disappearing emotion on earth called Love to give it the due attention and position in life.
So pick up your phone and make a call to anyone whom you have not contacted for a long time. Surprise them and make them happy. Surely this is the easiest way of spreading Love. Try once. Make a call. And you will be amazed at the feeling that starts lighting your heart. By the moment you hang the phone, you will feel the happiness and it will last longer than that the receiver felt.
Now that was simpler and you made it easily. But given that it’s a valentine’s day and many would be proposing their loved ones this day – out of those few lucky would be getting a positive responses but many rest would be left with a broken heart.
So what can you do in that? Yes you can.
You know who of your friends are going to try their luck this Valentine’s day, so keep in touch with them and if you find anyone who lost the first match of Love, go and console them.
A healing touch that helps resurrecting a broken heart is priceless. You would be the best person on earth for someone got ditched or rejected in love.
It’s not easy to take them away from the loss they just achieved. But an instant healing call or a meeting with a careful talk selection can be the idea. Please note that you will be looking to deal with recently broken heart. It would be melting and may be too hot to handle with. So the person in question would be frustrated, broken, and even irritated. So be nice, gentle, and patient with their reactions.
Besides keeping your shoulders ready for them to cry on, also keep prepared to tackle their anger and frustration. The hurt heart may hit at you for intervening unnecessarily or may ask you to leave. And you might need to leave to keep things okay. Just do that. But try again when you see that their anger might have been calmed down. Remember consoling someone or healing a broken heart depends upon the nature of heart so be prepared.
You may well fall short of home. You might fail to heal or help. But when the time will elapse and down the line when the person you tried to help would have recovered of the setback, they will find you as a great friend and companion. But did you do all this to win heart? Not at all! You helped. You helped to get the situation for someone under control. You also helped them to learn the art of healing. Surely they will find someone else someday in similar situation and would go on to offer the help.
See, one act of yours spread love to so much extension. You ultimately started an atomic reaction which will get multiplied in the future for sure.
So, are you all set to reap a plan of love, heal, and help? Go ahead and spread the love. But also don’t forget to say I Love You.
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